Recognize your type
Identify the unique shape of your mourning — name the pattern behind the pain.
A new book by Dr. Lisa Prosser-Dodds, Ph.D.
There is no single right way to grieve. Like a fingerprint, your grief is entirely your own — and when you understand your type, healing finally begins to make sense.
No two hearts mourn alike. GriefTypes names what has always been true — that your grief is as unique as a fingerprint.
GriefTypes gently maps the landscape of loss. Instead of judging your grief against someone else’s, this book helps you recognize your own pattern — and gives you language for it.
Written with warmth and clinical insight, each chapter explores one of the grief types Dr. Dodds has encountered across years of practice — how it feels from the inside, how it is often misunderstood, and what genuinely helps.
Identify the unique shape of your mourning — name the pattern behind the pain.
Stop measuring your grief against anyone else’s — there is no “wrong” way.
Follow practical, compassionate steps shaped around your own pattern.
Every chapter of the book unfolds one type — its quiet logic, its hidden ache, and the path that truly helps it heal.
grieving in a fog that rolls in without warning
seeking what was lost, in every face and room
keeping every voicemail, every shirt, every habit
loving loudly by fixing, organizing, getting things done
mourning out loud, surrounded, never in silence
grieving privately, deeply, one quiet room at a time
making sense of loss before feeling it fully
planning the grief as carefully as everything else
drifting through loss in waves with no schedule
holding grief in the five senses — taste, touch, song
feeling it all, first, wholly, without apology
finding meaning, symbols and signs beyond the loss
I finally understood why I grieved nothing like my sister. This book gave me permission to mourn as myself — and to stop apologizing for it.
As a counselor, I recommend GriefTypes to clients constantly. Naming the type of grief changes the entire conversation about healing.
After losing my husband, everyone told me how I should feel. Dr. Dodds told me how I do feel — and that made all the difference.
Our book club read it in one sitting. Everyone found their type — and then found their mother’s, and finally understood her.
Clinically sound yet deeply human. The twelve-type framework now sits on my desk, dog-eared, beside my DSM.
I am the loyal griever she writes about — the one who kept the voicemails. Reading my own chapter felt like being seen for the first time.